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Standing Still While Moving Forward

Standing still while moving forward. That’s how our lives are feeling right now. I’m getting a lot of questions at the moment regarding how we’re travelling and if we’ve sold our house yet, so I guess it’s time for a blog post!

Nope, no and not even close is the answer to “Have you sold your house yet?”, and you know what? I don’t care. Don’t get me wrong I do care, and I used to care too much, but that just stressed me out, so I’m just letting the universe do its thing and we’ll sell when the right person presents themselves and throws us a wad of cold hard, or something like that. You see that’s how the universe works. We manifest what we want with love, and then the kicker is letting that go so it can be made a reality. Constantly stressing about what’s going to happen is kind of like placing an order at a restaurant and then calling the waiter back over 50 times to see how your meal is going. If you keep asking, it’s not gonna happen. The universe ain’t got time for that. Let it do its shit, ffs (said to myself haha).

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Funny story though. Last week we kind of realised we needed some back-up if we don’t happen to sell the house before move date. It was kind of like an “oh shit” moment. So I asked the universe for the money we needed just in case and ‘poof’, the bank deemed fit to lend it to us (despite already being loaned money for the renovation, which of course we spent on the renovation – makes sense). So that’s one problem solved. We absolutely WILL be moving on December 31st. Awesome.

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With all this in mind, looking at real estate in Dunedin is killing me. In the last few weeks we’ve seen a number of properties that would have been damn near perfect for us, only to also watch them get sold to someone else. Again, trying not to worry about this. Something freakin excellent will magically appear exactly when it’s supposed to. The upside is though that we’re learning lots about the area we want to live. Where the sun is, where the views are, and where the crazy people live (thanks to Kev’s friend who’s husband is a cop in Dunedin for that morsel of helpful information).

Today we booked our dates for our house to be packed up. Shit just got real. Never mind the minefield of logistics that packing up all your worldly possessions on the last week of the school year entails, I’m excited!!! We’re doing this! This has been 5 years in the making, and it’s drawing so close I can taste it. Still there’s so much left to do and our calendar for the rest of the year is jam packed, and I’m yet to add a farewell party for us and a birthday part(ies) for Emma. My head might explode. At least Kev will be around to help out though, as he finished up at his job on Wednesday so he has two months of holidays from now. Looking forward to a few days of hanging out together and maybe even some golf.

Then there’s Christmas. Fuck, don’t get me started on that. It’s too far away. Let’s discuss that at a later date, when we’re hopefully not standing still while moving forward anymore.

For now, who wants to buy a house?

Standing Still

Wondering WTF I’m on about? Check out this earlier post:

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When you visit NZ to buy property, and have a holiday instead…..

So last week we made a mad dash to NZ for a land release that we’ve been waiting for in Queenstown. We decided to take our two youngest (who will be moving to NZ with us) along to show them where we are hoping to settle so that they can feel a little less uncertain when we do move them over. My mum also jumped on the bandwagon and came along to see where we’re planning to move. It’s a big change for my parents as well so I guess actually seeing the place helps her to make sense as to why we are wanting to make such a drastic move.

We began by driving ourselves to Dunedin from Queenstown. We really felt the kids needed to see Dunedin, as it’s almost certain that’s where we will initially be based when they start school next year. The drive is spectacular. We went out through the Gibbston valley through Cromwell and then Alexandra, before going through Lawrence then on to Dunedin, or Duuuu-nee-din as the Google maps lady pronounces it (so ridiculous!). I cried. God damn it, it’s so beautiful. The kids were amazed. Mum was in a separate car (disclaimer – I was NOT driving a van through winding hills with two kids vomiting in the third row and screaming the lyrics to MUSE while she grew more and more shitty. Everybody wins this way) but was equally impressed. Win.

Dunedin was awesome. We were only there 2 nights and one full day, but we packed it in like friggin sardines. The highlight for all of us was the Otago Museum with it’s amazing butterfly rainforest (it’s truly heaven on earth, I could work there), planetarium show and fun science exhibits; and the good ‘ole Cadbury chocolate factory. So sad that they are ceasing production, but the tour will remain, which is a much needed boost for the Dunedin tourism industry. SO.MUCH.CHOCOLATE. The easter bunny is having heart palpitations and seriously considering bringing Colgate for easter.

We also managed to drive around to all the areas we have been stalking online for months to see where we would like to live. One of the most important things in our move is where our daughter will be able to attend dance classes. Dance is a MASSIVE part of her little life, and we want to continue to support that, (I mean, this kids dances everywhere > not kidding I have photographic evidence) so it’s become a huge deciding factor in where we live. Our youngest son can play footy anywhere (although just a different game, that will be interesting. More to come on that front). Anyway, we found a little shop in the city where the locals buy their dance gear and I met the owner and a lady with daughters who dance. They were so helpful and friendly. In fact, that’s what stood out to us the most. Dunedin is super friendly. Everyone says hi. They are willing to help. They seem happy. That’s a great thing. Queenstown not so much, but we’ll talk about that later…..

So off to Queenstown we went. We made our way back around the southern way, through Gore (who knew it was the trout fishing and country music capital of NZ?) and Lumsden up to Kingston at the bottom of Lake Wakatipu. Wide open spaces filled with farmland and cattle of every description, rolling green hills and ragged brown escarpments which finally gave way to the crystal blue-green waters of Lake Wakatipu and the joy inducing Remarkables mountain range. My heart.

Upon driving toward Frankton (on the outskirts of Queenstown) we drove into the area where we were hoping to secure a piece of land on Saturday. Immediately my mum understood. It’s spectacular. You can’t beat it. The place is like something out of a fairytale. Check out Hanley’s Farm to see where our dream house would be. Also search Dalefield to see where I would go if I had a few million to spare. Warning: may induce desire to move to NZ.

So we spent the next day doing the tourist thing in Queenstown. We took a scenic cruise over to Walter Peak Farm on the TSS Earnslaw steam ship, we rode the Skyline Gondola up to the top of Ben Lomond and had some luge rides and we had fush and chups on the shore of Lake Wakatipu.  It was lovely. Holidays are excellent.

Then came sale day. So the list of people registered and invited by the developer was long. I mean, f*&king LONG. We found out were were #520 on the list of registered people and there were 75 sections (lots of land in NZ speak) available. To say I was being optimistic was accurate. The hit rate on the last few releases was only 20-30% though so anything was possible. NOT THIS TIME. It was packed. It was disappointing. It seemed like mates of the real estate agents and builders had just signed up to snatch up the land available, and as they called out the names one by one, hope were dashed. Three hours later, it was all over. They got to #180 on the list and announced they had sold out. Peoples faces were a mix of shock, disappointment, anger. One lady Kev my husband had spoken to was #184.Hate to have been her. Oh well, you win some, you lose some. To be honest as the week progressed we found that although Queenstown is so beautiful it makes you want to burst, the demand for property and the cost of living there has made the inhabitants not a lot of fun. People there are stressed. They have a housing problem, traffic is horrendous (yes, I was shocked too, but 40 mins for a 15 minute drive is not what we’re looking for), and the cost of a takeaway Chinese meal was $60 where it should be more like $25. No one was happy (except the people who owned the accomodation place where we stayed – I highly recommend Manata Lodge!).

It was a wake up call. Would we be happy in Queenstown if we couldn’t afford to live there? Could we work full time (because the cost would be so high that I’d have to quit photography and get a full time job somewhere) and get the kids to and from school and dance in a new town where we knew nobody and no-one seemed friendly? Would we even have the time or money to be able to live, to do things on a Sunday? TO GO SKIING? Why bother if you can’t? I mean, what’s the point? Quality of life is imperative. We decided Dunedin is a better fit for us.

NEK MINUTE: I receive an email from another land development I signed up for last year. It’s in a lovely area of Queenstown. They are releasing more land next week. FFS, we just let Queenstown go and decided on Dunedin. What the hell are you playing at universe?

SO. Here we are. Things are uncertain. Dunedin is looking the goods. We love the old houses there. We have met a lovely couple who are willing to help us settle in. Stay tuned for all the hair whitening and umming and ahhing. Grab a drink. It’s going to be interesting.

Anyway, here is our trip in pictures. The last day and a half of our holiday was spent visiting Arrowtown (oh god I’d love to shoot there), wineries and at the local indoor pool (which has waterslides!). Enjoy.

SO what’s with the lion in the photos? Leo is our travel lion. He comes on holidays with us and we take photos of his adventures. Just in case you were wondering what all the weird pictures of a small stuffed lion were about.

I have decided to include photos from both my camera and my iphone in here. The iphone takes a surprisingly good image in the right circumstances 🙂

Driving to Dunedin, NZLawrence, NZMuseum of OtagoDunedin Railway StationGore, NZKingston, NZManata Lodge, QueenstownQueenstown, NZQueenstown, NZTSS Earnslaw, QueenstownWalter Peak Farm TourWalter Peak Farm TourHanley's Farm Arrowtown, NZ

Emma’s NZ Pics

Emma is our 8 yr old. She loves to take photos and decided to take our Olympus TG4 for a spin. Here are her best shots. I absolutely love the first one. Possibly my favourite from our entire trip. I also snuck one into the main post. See if you can pick it.


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5 Reasons Queenstown is Awesome for Honeymooners


So, you’re getting married and afterwards looking to either a) chill out and relax somewhere marvellous; b) have an adventure-filled, fun-packed rip-roaring holiday; c) hit some killer wine and food trails somewhere cool and cosy with a warm fireplace OR d) a mix of all of the above. Look no further people, Queenstown New Zealand is your answer!

Set in one the most stunning mountainous areas of New Zealand’s South Island, Queenstown is surrounded by snow-capped mountains, beautiful valleys and of course the beautiful Lake Wakatipu. Trust me, you can’t go wrong. So let’s get into it, 5 reasons you won’t regret choosing Queenstown as your honeymoon destination.

1. Skiing. Seriously, if you haven’t skied or boarded before, NZ is great place to try it out. If you’re staying in Queenstown you can shuttle up to one of the 5 local resorts to enjoy a day of fun and excitement that only winter sports can provide, and seriously, the views are TO DIE FOR!

2. The wine! Oh the wine! The Central Otago region is renowned for producing some of the world’s best Pinot Noir among other varieties. A day tour to the wineries is a must! Sit back, enjoy the views and try every single wine (and cheese) the local wineries have to offer. The best part? Lunch in a wonderful restaurant and you don’t have to drive home, bliss!

3. Onsen Hot Spas. This place is seriously off the scale romantic. A shuttle bus will take you from downtown Queenstown up to the Hot Spas at Arthur’s Pass, where you can book a private spa for the two of you (the spa also caters for groups) for an hour or two, enjoy a romantic candle-lit soak, perhaps a few strawberries and glass of champagne. After a full day of trekking or skiing, what better way to end it? One of the most awesome experiences around.

4. Adventure Sports! You name it, it can be done in or around Queenstown! Summer, winter, this place is a buzz with activity of all kinds. Let me make a short list….

Skiing, boarding, heli-skiing (yes, they drop you in the powder on the top of a mountain somewhere and you carve down yourself, whoooo!), sky-diving, parasailing, hiking, white-water rafting, bunjy jumping, canyon swing, zip trek (a cool series of zip-lines that traverse the side of a mountain), horse-riding, kayaking, quad biking, cycling, and of course the famous Shotover Jet, who speed along the Shotover Canyon and give you the thrill of a lifetime by driving the boat so close to the rocks and in a few inches of water it will give you a heart attack, awesome!

There are plenty more activities to discover in and around Queenstown. It all depends on how adventurous you are. Trust me, you will have trouble deciding what to do next! See point 3 for what to do after a day full of said activities.

5. The Food. Oh the food!!!! There are some serious places to eat and drink in and around Queenstown. If classy, fine dining pushes your buttons then try Amisfield Winery on the shores of Lake Hayes. They are locally renowned and have won multiple awards. The view up to Coronet Peak is pretty special too. I would also recommend a trip out to Gantleys for an evening of fine dining. Taxis from town will take you to both places.

For something a little more relaxed, there’s The Cow. It’s kind of a local secret, but not so secret. Amazing warm atmosphere, great pizza and pasta and a neat bar, this place is located in Cow Lane, hence the name. If you don’t mind rubbing shoulders with a few fellow travellers and locals, this place will rock your world.

There are many, many more establishments in Queenstown serving great food and atmosphere, but you simply CANNOT go there without visiting Fergberger. I kid you not, this is the best burger you will EVER eat. You will locate it easily with the queue snaking out the door and around the block, but trust me, it’s worth the wait. They cater for vegetarians too, so everybody’s happy. Yay. Seriously though, go to Fergberger, you will thank me later.


So there you have it. I could also go on about how gorgeous the lake is and the many, many other activities available for you to enjoy in the area, but why not come and see for yourself! I would be happy to live in Queenstown if I had my way, it’s a very special place. Flights are available direct into Queenstown airport or you could fly into Christchurch or Dunedin and hire a car or a camper-van and get truckin! ROAD TRIP!

 All photos by Wendy Maley aka ME!







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